When Even Milk Powder Was Out Of Reach
19th September 2026

When Even Milk Powder Was Out Of Reach

“Singapore has plenty of water – just give your baby water to drink.”
Those were the words Aishah Abdullah heard when she asked her husband’s aunt if she could borrow money to buy milk powder for her son.

“It was really painful to hear such a cruel comment,” recalled Aishah, now 42, fighting back tears. “After my marriage broke down, my husband stopped giving me money. My baby’s milk powder was running low, and I had no money to buy another tin.”

Working as a retail store supervisor, Aishah was raising three young children – then aged five, three, and two – as the sole breadwinner and caregiver. Struggling to make ends meet, she could barely afford essentials such as food, milk powder, and diapers.

More than visible scars

By then, Aishah had already endured years of physical, emotional, and psychological abuse before leaving the marriage. One assault even left her with a concussion. “My then husband pushed me so hard that I flew across the room,” she recalled. “My head hit the floor and I kept vomiting afterwards.”

The abuse did not end there. Her husband’s repeated affairs left her emotionally shattered. “After his first affair, I took him back because I didn’t want my children to grow up in a broken family,” she said. “When it happened again, I was devastated. I felt so alone, with no one to confide in.” At her lowest point, Aishah attempted suicide. Although her children had never been physically abused, they had lived with the fear and uncertainty that violence brought into the home. In moments of distress, Aishah would break down and her children would comfort her, even wiping away her tears.

With stability restored at home, Ariel observed Aishah’s children becoming more at ease, spending their sessions happily playing together
With stability restored at home, Ariel observed Aishah’s children becoming more at ease, spending their sessions happily playing together

Making home safe again

After years of suffering in silence, Aishah sought help from MWS Family Service Centre – Tampines.

Her social worker, Ariel Ee, first ensured the family’s immediate needs were met through emergency cash assistance, grocery vouchers, and food rations. She also worked with Aishah to establish safety for her family, from changing the locks at their home to arranging subsidised after-school care to reduce the children’s exposure to violence and conflict. As Aishah navigated her divorce, Ariel supported her in pursuing maintenance to help secure financial stability for the family.

Counselling gave Aishah a safe space to process years of trauma and grief, and to rebuild her confidence.

It was about empowering her to recognise her own strengths and resilience. She began to see what she could achieve on her own.

Healing together

Over time, Aishah grew calmer and more grounded. “As she healed, she became more present for her boys,” Ariel said. “She was able to play with them, guide them in their schoolwork, and reassure them through the changes they were experiencing.”

Aishah’s healing had a positive impact on her children. Her eldest no longer hovered anxiously during counselling sessions, while all three boys became more relaxed – playing, joking, and sharing their hopes for the future. With greater stability at home, they are also thriving in school.

Healing from trauma has enabled Aishah to build a more stable future for her children
Healing from trauma has enabled Aishah to build a more stable future for her children

I used to feel powerless and overwhelmed. But I’ve come to a place of acceptance and I’m able to look ahead, knowing that I have what it takes to face the future.

Nearly five years on, Aishah has found the confidence to look beyond her past. Today, she is planning holidays with her children and hopes to own a home of her own. “I used to feel powerless and overwhelmed,” she said. “But I’ve come to a place of acceptance and I’m able to look ahead, knowing that I have what it takes to face the future.”

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